Heh, well, this is where my shipper goggles start to make it hard for me to see past a certain range. I am absolutely convinced that if Kylo embraced his essential follower-ness by turning his life over to Rey and becoming her service sub, all his problems would ... well, not disappear, but they'd certainly recede to a very manageable level.

But obviously I have some Biases at work here, lol.